...the Female Once-Over - a process by which one woman creates a detailed profile of another woman based upon about a million subtle details of clothing, jewelry, makeup, and body type, and then decides how much of a social threat she might be. Men have a parallel process, but it's binary: Does he have beer? If yes, will he share with me?

Jim Butcher

People can dress you the way they want, they can do your makeup the way they want, but they can never take away your voice.

Sasha Grey